Children's ability to listen to advice needs to be trained from an early age, so that children can grow up to be individuals who obey the rules. However, most children still don't want to listen to their parents, some are even critical of what their parents say. Problems like this are common, either because the child doesn't want to listen or pretends not to listen.
Don't talk too much when your child isn't paying attention to you. If the child wants to hear, then try to approach him, try to squat and be parallel to him. Research reveals that when we feel connected to others, we are more open to their influence. So you get your child to listen, but not manipulate it. When the child is not looking at you, then wait for him to notice you. If the child is already paying attention, look him in the eye and start talking. That way, children generally want to listen to their parents.
Before you try different ways to get your child to listen, it's best to find out why your child won't listen to you. Generally, children are lazy to listen because they don't like what you have to say. In addition, it could also be because the child does not agree with your request, but he does not dare to express it. For example, when you ask a child to lend a toy he is holding to a friend or sibling, the child may pretend not to hear you. He did this not because he meant to ignore you, but because he found it difficult to obey the commandment. Usually this happens when the child already has an ego and is possessive of something.
Good communication is one of the most important forms of learning. Therefore, try to always nurture and support the child so that he will talk about his mistakes and what lessons he can learn from it. So that children do not feel too disappointed, embarrassed, or even punish themselves, parents can also share stories about failures they have experienced and explain how to overcome them. This can help children to think and act more wisely. .
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