Beautiful morning! I am a happy woman, her husband and two children. It's been fine. But at one point it appears that all is good turns to dust. Life is like a movie changes shots one after the other. And you realize that there is nothing to return and cannot be changed. It so happened that the circumstances were such that I almost ran away with his daughter, married a second time.
But basically my husband was while we lived at me, not bad but weak-willed man, and has changed a lot after moving to him. Had to live in one apartment with his mother. I always thought that with me it is impossible not to get along, I never went against mother-in-law, always trying to smooth out the sharp corners of relations. But all proved in vain. She hated her eldest son and of course me. I didn't understand what was happening at first, when I realized how it turned out. this story of a single day which forever killed my soul a faith in justice, honesty and integrity of people.
Was a holiday my family and I - husband and I and our kids went to the Park on the carousel,ate ice cream, rode on a catamaran and 8 o'clock in the evening returned home,tired but happy. The output was fine.
But the house we were in for a surprise. My drunk mother in law met us with discontent. We started fighting, she got into a fight,rushed at me, I pushed her off. Husband stolknut her room, she kept the door.I took the children went to her room. After a time she calmed down and went somewhere.
I don't even know what time she came. I haven't talked to her. But the next day in the evening I saw the cast on her arm.
And here to me the summons comes, to come to the police (then it was still police). I without a second thought go to the investigator. I was just in shock, in horror, I was attacked by a stupor. As it turned out, my mother in law wrote me a statement that I broke her arm. I tried to explain but all in vain. I said honestly that night we argued and I pushed her and killed himself. Tried to explain that she didn't fall. Yes, and I'm 45 kg can knock down 90 lbs. All my efforts to prove I'm not guilty, were in vain. The investigator believed it more than me. The case was transferred to court and I was sentenced to a year of probation. I can't tell you what happened to me, I was hurt and angry, I knew it wasn't my fault. My husband too was ignored, his evidence was not taken into account. I'm in despair began to drink from the beginning of longeri, wine, then the wine is stronger and has reached the 40 degree snake.
My faith in the justice collapsed in a jiffy. Even the bailiff was sympathetic,but to change already anything it is impossible. She warned me to the police patrols went around 10 - expensive. And this year sat like a mouse.
The worst thing happened later, five years later. When once again mother-in-law got drunk and menace and anger, my children told how she condemned me, and that broke her arm after falling from trains. As it turned out after the scandal that was the night she wanted to go to his lover in Kharkov, and when I tried to get into the train crashed.
But something in me broke,I could no longer be the same. I no longer manifested their good feelings towards people, I no longer believe that it is possible to prove his guilt. And I learned that you can't admit it's her word against your word, because there were no witnesses, and the cops let them prove your guilt.
My husband and I certainly do not live, although he lived for almost 20 years. Now I regret only about one thing, we had to leave early, do not spoil your life. Rose-colored glasses forever I left. Now they - my husband and his mother live together, drink together, and then she calls the cops and taking him, So they continue to live.
My life has now turned into a tale. The daughter lives separately, my son is with me. In my life there was a man with me who blows off dust particles in the house not a drop of alcohol. I feel happy and I do not understand why I suffered so many years trying to change the world for the better. It's just not worth doing, because it is short and to dedicate it is necessary only to those who are not indifferent and who needs your care,participation.
I wish you all happiness! Appreciate the life she was alone and not rewrite it and not fix it.