Huh??? When did I say emotions are not important to a marriage??? Of course they are!!! As for "welfare People..." Geez. First, I used to work in welfare, and plenty of Them were NOT "fat and lazy." Most of Them wanted to learn skills and get out of the situation They were in. Yes, there was a small percentage that were not trying.

And You think the pittance They give on welfare allow People to go travel the world, do archaeological work, do sculptures, and any number of other things that require money, to do them? Really??? They are no more free to do what They love to do than the working poor.

And FYI... I have thought on these problems for 50 years and more - since I was a child. Have dedicated My life to grasping the problem and developing a solution. So You are trying to tell a master what She has long since examined and seen the issues with.

As to what I say... I do think You lack vision. And I will say what I think. It's Your responsibility to choose how You feel about what I say.