Messing up your life it’s not something that makes you proud of yourself, but it’s something so ordinary that you have to get used with it. Mistakes and wrong ways are your life, too.
Don’t count your successes and think that they exist because of these mistakes and wrong ways. In order to be successful you have to get lost and to be messed up. When you find the way to clean all this mess, then your success is near.
Try not to forget the person you were, when you were living in a mess. It’s so important to support and remember your bad side because it’s your real side.
Be grateful to the person you were then.