I believe a person's life will reflect who they are within themselves. Be the right person within and that will reflect outwards for all to see. I believe, also, that by choosing to be the right person within life can be more fulfilled and enjoyable.
We reap the harvest of that which we sow in life, history shows many examples of that. Plant the right seeds, tend and nurture them, feed them when required and we shall receive a bounteous harvest.