How to raise children
Children are the paradise of life and the home of the family, and the window of love and safety that the community sees, are also future generations and the hope of the community and its rise, but what if this child is not educated? What if he grew up in a bad environment? Are they going to be against his society or are they reversed? So what established the right education for children in society? Do we follow the methods that are valid as we always think? And do we inherit the methods of raising children - father for grandfather - are the right methods?
Psychologists say that raising a child has several ways:
1- The education here is a combination of kindness and firmness with the child, and the quality of education varies from child to child, and depends on his psychology and nature, You find children who accept the example and others are just preaching only, and another kind is not only suitable for encouragement or intimidation.
The beating is not a punishment, and if it is forced, it must not be harmful, and the father and mother should be satisfied with the light, so that the child does not grow the meaning of hatred and his feelings of injustice and rejection of any form of authority. This type is more widely accepted and more widely used in schools.
2- The second type of education is preaching (advice): it is the education using the speech directed at the person, and this is one of the methods used to raise the young, and may bring us negative or positive results (rejection and acceptance), according to the way of speech guidance, this type of education finds success With the following elements:
How to deliver advice and what you need from a package.
Because the human nature does not tend to be restricted and tends to freedom.
Rest when you hear the advice, by a person who is calm and smiling face.
Advice should be simple to understand and accept.
The necessity of preaching alongside any other means of raising the child comes from the basis that follow the mistake delicious and that it corresponds to the nature of the human soul, in other words, the child resort to fraud because it will not make an effort in the study as a fast path to success as well as a way out of the impasse Do not study.
With the advice and advice of the child, a responsible person is raised to learn what the limits of freedom he enjoys. There are other methods of education used in raising children, but these two methods are the most common, the most used and successful, and each method used according to the child we deal with With him, according to the situation, and according to the environment in which he lives, and according to the nature of the community, and finally it must be alerted that the balance between all this and between the method used in education, so as to establish a healthy child balanced, uncomplicated and unaffected .
By: Mahmoud Abu Yehya
