How to make my son distinct
Follow modern and different methods
In order for the child to be unique, intelligent and unique, parents must follow some modern and different methods of education. The child is allowed to live and live well and bad, under parental guidance and supervision. Most parents deal with their children in a manner based on fear of their parents. They have authority over him, but this method is never effective. Parents must be friends with their children, and abandon the style that will cause the children to rebel at an early age. [1]
It is worth mentioning that it is necessary to agree and dialogue with them, even in the simple things such as cleaning the room after playing, and answering the questions they have, and the rewards should be provided to the children for the good behavior they do instead of punishing them for wrong behavior, the system of rewards in education has a greater impact than the system Punishment. [1]
Start early by taking care of the son
Parents should avoid delaying attention to the abilities of their children to a certain time. This does not mean that the child is a reason for neglecting the mother and father for their work and for each other's life. The most important thing in education is to balance all aspects of life and raise the child properly. It is important to note that the child should be left to discover himself and his abilities. Parents must open the door for him to paint and draw and develop his own skills. This fosters a sense of autonomy and greatly increases self- confidence . Confidence plays an important role in making the child enjoy a distinct personality. [1]
Make learning fun
The child's mind is like a sponge, where it receives and stores everything it sees, feels, smells, tastes and touches. Parents must let the children learn themselves, so that they are filled with curiosity to discover everything around them, under the supervision of the parents. Around him better, and this makes him enjoy a fast pace, and thus increase his self-confidence, which will reflect positively on his actions in general, and will become a way to analyze events more logical. It is also important that parents make their child perceive problems as challenges that need to be resolved and not problems to be concerned about. [1]
Give the son the freedom to choose
It is true that many parents have ambitions and dreams of what they want their child to have when he grows up, but it will always be better to let the child decide for himself what he wants to be in the future. The real success of the human being is to do what he really loves and to enjoy it. The parents want the happiness of their child, so they have to let him do what he likes and provide the love and support necessary for their child to be what he aspires to, and to forgive what he seeks. [1]
Communicate with children
Parents must understand what their children are doing, by communicating with them and spending enough time with them. The mother and father can enter their child's world, learn what they love and dislike, know how they play and what they are interested in, and provide feedback to the child through effective communication with them. The child will feel that his parents care about him and will gain confidence in him and himself. [2]
Developing the personality of the Son
The community and the school 's role in the promotion of the child 's personality, but not the great role as the role of the family, as the child 's personality consists in the first age years and in times spent with his family, and there are some tips that must be followed by the parents so that the child is a distinct personality, including: [ 3]
Failure to meet all of his requests: Some requests must be rejected by the child even if it is simple, so feel the value of the things he owns and estimated whatever.
Say no when necessary and not to be undone: the parents put their child 's special rules and not allowing him to override them, as the child gets used to the constant auctioneer of the parents may exceed its limits and it becomes difficult to control his actions in the future.
Praise the child: Praise the child when he behaves well, or when he is honest, for example, when the child gently talks with others, or stop to help someone in the street must praise.
Directing the child: The child should be instructed what to do and what should not be done, by talking to the child about good morals or how to deal with people .
Good example: The child watches his parents and learns what they are doing in front of him, so parents must have the ethics they want to be in their child, like treating others with respect, speaking gently to the hygienist, avoiding ridicule of others, and many other things.
Teach him gratitude and thanks to others: It is important that the child get used to saying thank you to others, and really feel the direction of the gifts and rewards, and to appreciate the blessings that exist in his life, especially non-physical ones.
Do not do what the child can do: All that a child can do by himself must do it, so that he depends on himself and does not become an addict.
References
1- ^ A b t w c of Ivan Dimitrijevic, "4 Things You Can Do Your Kids To the Turn of Into High Achievers" , Www.lifehack.org , Retrieved 2-12-2017.
2- ↑ Katherine Lee, "Top Tips on Raising Kids" , www.everydayhealth.com , Retrieved 2-12-2017.
3- ↑ Tiffany Gee Lewis, "9 tips for raising kids with character" , www.familyshare.com , Retrieved 2-12-2017.
By: Tasnim Hasan
