How do I deal with my children?
dealing with Children
Mothers need a lot of patience and wisdom in dealing with children. Sometimes things happen that may hurt the feelings of children. Children want to not follow our instructions. They want to play longer, do not stick to sleep and wake up, causing problems between mothers and their children. When children are angry, they cry and scream, which causes anxiety to mothers. They do not know how to deal with their anger, stubbornness, misguidance and erroneous behavior. There are many ways to help mothers deal with children.
Methods of dealing with children
When children go through crying and anger, insisting on the implementation of their requests, parents must follow the following methods:
Listen to the baby well
Children should be allowed to express their feelings, listen and listen to them to understand their problems and the reasons for their crying. The child must be treated as a mature person with regard to being a child, sitting next to him or going down to his level of consideration. Then ask him why he cries or screams and listen to him so that he can express For his feelings, and not to hold the child at that moment and just understand the reasons that made him scream.
Set the boundaries of the child
After listening to the child and the reasons for his crying, you must explain the reasons, for example: You can not get what you want because it can cause you harm, you must sleep early to wake up active school, you should not drink soft drinks because it harms health, assault and quarrel with your brothers And if he insists on his behavior, he must be told that he is wrong and must retreat and ask him to sit and think about the matter. If he assaults his brothers, we ask him to go to another room and stay there, and the parents must be patient and not lose their senses. .
Get rid of negative emotions
Often when parents start talking with children, they cry or have an angry fit. This is a suitable way for a child to get rid of stress. It is possible to embrace the child to get rid of the negative feelings. The mistakes must be clarified for the child and the proper behavior statement. Thus the child can listen better and distinguish the correct behavior from the sinner. , And the more we talk to children, the closer the relationship is with them and push them to do not make mistakes.
Dealing with stubborn child
- Children are not forced to obey orders, to be lenient in treatment and to use flexibility in matters that the child insists on and which we can allow.
- The child's work is another subject if it is small, and if discussion and understanding is great.
- Use calm dialogue with the child in situations where obstinacy appears, discuss the child immediately and do not postpone the situation later.
- The child should not be described as stubborn or compared to others.
By Nadr Hassan