Yesterday, as is customary in my line of work, I met with a group of business owners. It was prior to the start of the meeting that I noticed a lady friend of mine who was obviously upset and distressed about something.
Being a public event, I felt it was inappropriate to not approach her. However, shortly after the meeting terminated we agreed to communicate on a business matter and to do so via email on our return to our respective offices. Once we had concluded our business and based on the trusting relationship we enjoy, as well as the concern I felt on her behalf, I broached the subject. I let her know how I had noticed that something was amiss at the earlier meeting. Trying not to come across as being inquisitive and insensitive, I offered her a confidential platform on which she could vent or share.
I have been a relationship coach and sounding board for people for over 20 years. I am passionate about this aspect of my work and try to make myself available to just hear people out. I have first hand experience of just how many people out there, just want to get 'stuff' off their chest. The challenge is they often don’t feel they have a place or person to do that with.
My friend shared that she had just received news that her father had been diagnosed with leukaemia. Adding to the distress this was causing her, there were some serious and obvious implications where the family were concerned. She shared briefly, and I was able to offer some support as I she explained her deepest concerns and anxiety.
How important are our senses when it comes to paying attention to what is going on in our ‘space’? That we can listen, see and be sensitive enough to reach out a helping hand or offer a shoulder for support is evidence of our humanity. My hope is that more of us can become practised in the art of empathy so that we can help and empower others to get through their trials.
Would it not be important to you that in your hour of need, humanity sees, hears and responds to your plea for help.
It's important to me.