Each of us has our own world. We call it personal life. It is almost different for everyone. Today I want to share one of my most difficult moments.
Do you know what makes me happiest? Eating twice and sleeping peacefully at home. But are we all peaceful? Yes, as we grow older, our thoughts increase. Our thoughts are almost the same in different perspectives. That is to be established. It is so much struggle to see ourselves in a difficult condition. There are many content creators in Bangladesh whose videos I often watch. A few days ago, a university brother in Dhaka was making a video. In that video, he mentioned cockroaches. Cockroaches survive in the face of thousands of adversities.
Does it really happen all the time? It doesn't happen to me. When I was little, I was happy with little things. I was very happy with small gifts from my parents and my parents. But when I started growing up, I saw that my respect had increased a lot. My expectations in relationships had become much higher. Over time, I met many new people. When someone told me something about a certain subject, I expected a lot more. But once I saw that no one was paying attention to me, I started feeling very bad.
Time didn't seem to be good to anyone anymore, so I started moving away from everyone because I started feeling like they didn't keep up with me. I remember many nights when I lost my peaceful sleep. The nights were sleepless. My throat would get very heavy. I couldn't cry out loud for fear of embarrassing people. Or I would cry silently and wet my pillow. I felt very immature. One day I went to the student adventurer of our department. Ma'am was very helpful. I felt like I had no talent. Ma'am told me that your idea was wrong. You must be talented. Keep trying. It was very good to hear Ma'am talk about your likes. Then I stopped thinking negatively about myself and focused on my studies again. I started reducing my high expectations and started giving importance to myself and my own likes over others. This is how I got through such a difficult phase.
And yes, I don't have to tell you what the worst moment is, having high expectations about someone and then not meeting them. Your likes or dislikes may differ from ours, it really depends on the person, so friends, you can share your likes or dislikes.
