Lately i just started getting into the Kriya Yoga and that particular meditation. Certainly, we do not find happiness outside of ourselves the reason being- happiness is self generated.
Grant yourself what it is you want alternatively trying to find it in another person. If you are incomplete at the time you choose to be with someone, then you will try and find a relationship of "striving toward happiness" instead of with the aim or plan to "convey your happiness"
