Women were created to be more than a slightly battered version of men. They both thought, felt, talked and acted differently also different in their priorities. Based on Apostle Paul philosophy, the husband must understand that his wife needs his "love" and the wife must understand that had s husband needs her "respect".
According to Dr Emerson Eggerichs, men and women speak different relationship languages, based on their differing needs, both need love and respect, but husband's feel loved when they're given their wife unconditional respect, and wives feel respected when they're given their husbands unconditional love.
Source: www.gracesoamazingfoundation.org