Point made clear, Most marriages that didn't last long was majorly because both parties involved came together for fun not for responsibility or challenges so immediately the challenges which is likely a bonus gift to all marriage those who weren't prepared will excuse themselves without looking back.

Another thing is that the world has lost all form of morals they believe sex talks and talks about the opposite sex is fun but like you said it kills of reality and makes them lose out in the future.

To take care of bills especially when you have a must pay bills like monthly medications you gatz to take life serious because no one will pay those bills for you, each second makes a difference.
I like your commitment, don't worry God will keep on supporting you in all your endeavors.