Life is a very good teacher, if you have not been taught by life, then you still have a long way to go.
Welcome back to my blog this beautiful day. I hope I met you all well?
Today we are going to be looking at the changes that comes with life, it effects on our behaviors and the development it brings along.
People change, countries change, communities change and the list continues. But why the changes? This may be your question. While as we continue, we will learn the reasons for some of these changes in different places and people.
I learnt a very big lesson years back, and I want to share with us here so that we may learn together. Before we move on, I do ask this question before but no anymore. Why is this person so wicked or heartless? Are some of the questions I usually ask before, and when people try to give any answers, it will be be to my satisfaction. Until when I saw things myself, when I experience things for myself, then I now have the answers to most questions that I asked before.
I had a very good friend, who use to be like my own sister. We shared things together, we move together, some times we sleep together. If you don't see me at home, the next place is to go get me in her house. We were too close and I trusted her with all my heart. I never thought in my life that something can come between us , not to talk about setting us against each other.
THE BIG LESSON
I had a secret that no one knows about it , but I felt to that she is a very good friend and deserve to know everything about me. After some time, we had a little misunderstanding and the next thing my very good friend thought of doing was to let my secret out. It started speculating and I was not aware of it.
THE CHANGE IT CAME WITH
when I had of it, I felt that I was a fool for letting someone know everything about me. I also felt that I shouldn't have trusted someone to that extent. From that experience, I learnt a very big lesson, never to under estimate anyone like that, thinking that that person will be able to hold herself and keep to a secret.
THINGS I DON'T DO ANYMORE
My trust have limits. I don't trust people to that extent anymore
Friends have boundaries: if you are a friend, there are boundaries you can't cross in my life.
No friend keeps any secret for me. I keep them myself.
In summary-
The reasons for some changes in people's life is actually the encounters they have had previously. People are not born wicked, but someone makes them to be wicked. If you see a wicked person, try to get close to to that person and find out the reasons for his behaviors, and you will be shocked at your findings.
Thanks for being there for me. Remain blessed.
I love you all.
