I think being here no matter the outcome is the best attitude. Continue participating and doing your thing and showing the community you want to belong. I doubt the people just acting bitter and entitled will have a positive outcome. Personally, I would wait until after this week is over because a lot of people will be voting no simply to avoid airdropping everyone (if there is one person they really don't like on either list, it makes sense to vote no).
RE: The Hive exclude list (and me being on it)