I've been in a moment where you're trying to type a very long message to someone. Then, because of that feeling of incompetence, you decided to delete it.That was me last night. My finger was just being sharp, typing faster. My brain was thinking also faster.
I had a paragraph full of emotions and everything. It was the time I was ready to press in. Then, I stopped. It was the moment that I asked myself, was this critical? Sending this message, will it fix the problem? Or, it equated that.
We are too hesitant for our emotions. Think that getting silent is a weakness. We just have to act. We just have to seek validation and we just have to react to things. But, we should not treat everything as urgent as always. Arguments are not just critical.
The way you choose some explanation are not just important for you to react. I knew why I deleted the message. At first, I was angry but this moment, the anger has reduced. Time has its way of trying to shrink things. Let you know that this is not that.
It is that that is the most important we feel. Not everything in life deserves to take your energy. Sometimes, peace is very important. And, sometimes, the strongest things can be nothing at all.