It’s important to make out the difference between what you have and what you get because it will play with your emotion and gives you pleasure and soreness.
Expectation is something that leads to such emotion so it’s better not to expect anything from others, but from your own self because when you expect anything from yourself it will inspire you.
The best part of the expectation is when you don’t expect anything and if you get it, it’ll surprise you and the sad part of the expectation is when you expect and you don’t get it, it’ll upset you.
Our objective should be to give our best and rest leave it as it is because if we have justified our efforts we will get what we deserve best, but if we do it with high expectations and if we do not get we hurt our-self that demotivate us and we end up with sadness.
Also, we should not expect from others because if we can’t rule our own emotions how can we expect others to behave the way we want. In this busy world, everyone is very busy with their own commitment. So we can’t expect them to fulfill our wishes in time. We should learn to be independent and not wait for others' help, when we don’t get it we will get disappointed. So it’s better to have surprises from others when they land up doing something which we never expected.
Quote by Tony Robbins says ” The secret of success is learning how to use pain and pleasure instead of having pain and pleasure use you. If you do that, you’re in control of your life. If you don’t, life controls you.”
