It has been said that love is real and the best of love is to be loved in return by the one you love the most. Love to many people has a different definition and it depends on the individual point of view, perspective, belief, and also experience.
Love encompasses a range of strong and positive emotional and mental states, from the most sublime virtue or good habit, the deepest interpersonal affection, to the simplest pleasure.
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We all have a different reason to love and be loved. The first love to happen in humans' existence is that of a mother to her child. Every mother would always pour love into her child at birth, eye contact, and also through breastfeeding a child would look into his/her mom eyes and feel the overwhelming love she had for him/her as a child, this is where true love exists. Another aspect of love could come from mingling with siblings and friends. This type of love is said to be conditional, you might have siblings and never love them or they won’t love you in reciprocation. So this is bound to happen among friends too, a friend of today might turn an enemy tomorrow. Love could also sprout from the relationship as a man with a woman or vice versa, this type of love breeds and grow as time pass by and could or couldn’t lead to marriage.
Marriage, also called matrimony or wedlock is a culturally recognized union between people called spouses. It establishes rights and obligations between them, as well as between them and their children, and between them and their in-laws.
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You might have been living on your own, passing through different stages in life, right from infant, your childhood days, growing to become a teenager, attaining puberty, and also maturing to your adulthood stage in life. But come to think of a life without marriage and you be on your own till the end of your days it’s ridiculous. Though there are ups and downs in marriage and are surely inevitable with some key factors it would come to a certain point of satisfaction. No religion went against getting married rather they preach marriage and the benefits from it.
One thing most people fear about marriage is the trouble it brings alongside its arrival, it’s compulsory to pray and sought the right choice when it comes to choosing a partner. Love fades, so it better to select a spouse with a good heart and make sure it’s someone compatible with you, partners with a bad character, lacks the endurance, and also inculcate stubbornness and wickedness as their actions could make life a living hell and marriage in such conditions would be full of hatred, regrets, and sadness.
Another pure concept about marriage is the fact making the right choice would always make the best out of your life, personally , mentally and even make you socially conservative with your life and happiness would always be at the peak. It is advisable to remain single and get married to the right person than to be in an early relationship with the wrong person. Peace of mind comes from having the right spouse, not only that the future of your family would be great but you gave your children a promising father/mother.
The choice is yours to make and the consequence of your decision is surely for you only. No one would be there to share that burden engraved in your heart, so it’s better to take into consideration the reason why and whom you want to spend the rest of your life with. Going after money, or assets, or maybe physical appearance is nothing to write home about. They are essential requirements for selecting a spouse but they are never compulsory.
Be wise! And always remember prayers comes first.
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