The bad event can not get you if you accept what happens with a positive attitude. I always say if I have a negative event, all I have to do is Add something to it and then I will have another positive event. Negative ( - ) add something make a positive ( + ) simple.
Examples I have lived thru. Got fired from a job and evicted at same time. Turned around and said now I can take time off to regroup for a better life. With time I found land to have as mine and a new better job came my way.
I added positive thoughts and received a better life. I will not be evicted ever again. Life is good.
Stay positive be a great surviver.
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