Was discussing with my nephew and niece this evening and come to this topic,this topic triggers me and i think i should share it with you. 'What i want to become in future'
Yea,as a kid,everybody wanted to be someone reliable,well recognised,u know that feelings that when they show a star on the television ,u gonna want to be like that. Some want to be a musician because of they saw them flaunting their cars and thought they would also have that kind of cars if they become a musician. some wanted to be a doctor because of their appearance in white.
Hmmm.....life,some goes to the extends of dreaming to become the president of the country. But at end of the day,they end up becoming what is not part of their dream in life.
As for me;as a kid,i wanted to be an actress,not even because of their dresses or how they appear on the television,totally no. But because i noticed i possess the character,whenever i watch a movie,i will always recap and practice it,especially the main actor role and even do it better,you know now..with swag,so with this i do tell my parent that i want to become an actress.
In my secondary school days,i do perform any stage activities like dancing,miming,acting,debating,fashion parade and so on,to the extends that i was noticed by all student so,most of them call me star girl. After secondary school,life began.
Finding myself in another course entirely,in a dream i did not plan. I fought for my first dream;becoming an actress in the aspect of putting extra energy,dedication,reading,researching but all went as if i did not dream of it(becoming an actress).
But today,wow!!! I thank my creator,i may not be an actress today but who i am today,shows i will have a better and brighter future,so far i live.
What prompt me writing this was as a result of my discussion with my niece and nephews on what they want to become.
As they all said their dream,i could not provide them any straight answer instead,i said to them:your dreams are excellent,you have a brighter future but always remember in any dream you later found yourself into ,work towards it,find it interesting and appreciate it because dream could change in life. Then,one of my nephew replied:what could cause it,aunt please tell us the reason ,hearing this, i paused for a minute and told them:finish up your assignment,we shall talk about tomorrow.
From that very moments,a lot of question have been running through my head,saying,come to think of it, what do cause this?
Could it be our attitude towards that dream or our dream is not well planned?
Could it be family problem?
Could it be that parents do not give enough support towards our dream ?
Dont forget,my parents supported mine,i did not know of others.
Is it of our poor community ?
Or because of poor government?
What is your opinion about this?
My quote:it is easier to sulk about our disappointment and hardship than it is to search out what we can be grateful for even in the midst of trouble.
Don't forget.....
Abbidex care
