i can understand that. Just make sure that when you practice drawing that you incorporate turning the safety off with your draw. Would never want to be in the situation where you draw and the safety is on. The extra time it takes to turn it off could be the difference between life and death.
I too have 3 children in the home and find discussing gun safety is very important. Feel free to check out some of my other articles regarding just that: children and gun safety.
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