I just finished watching a movie titled "nappily ever after" and I must confess it was a really great movie. It's about a lady who was taught by her mother from an early stage how to be the "perfect" woman in other words the woman every man would want. She always had to have the perfect look starting with her hair and the perfect career.
It was all good until her lover of two years gave her a Chihuahua(a specie of dog) on her birthday while she was expecting a ring instead because he didn't know what to get the perfect woman. After she confronted him he simply said she was too perfect for him and their relationship seemed like a "two years first date" because she had never let him see the real her.
Their relationship ended and she had to take a break so she went out to the club got drunk, went back home and in her depression and drunken state she shaver off her hair. She woke up the next morning and was shocked at what she did, she wasn't herself throughout the day until she met a Lady in the bathroom who invited to her classes. There she met women who were suffering from cancer, some had not breast and some had no hair yet they embraced themselves and this is where she learn her lesson.
She decided it was time to step out of the box, she no longer felt the need to be perfect but to embrace herself the way she was, she rocked her new hair, requested for a change of department at work and found happiness in who she really was. She no longer felt the need to be the "perfect" woman.