This is one of the problems we face in this world - people trying to Change other people. We want to love them if the measure up to our standards, if they are not like us, we don't want them. That's an amazing thing, we think they should change, if we can't change them, then NO one could.
You need to learn that you CAN'T CHANGE ANYBODY! You don't need to change anybody or even call God to do so...
So what do we do?..The first question I'll ask you is "why do you think they need a change in the first place"
Are you thinking of an answer?.. Why would you want to change somebody else? - I just told you, quit trying to change anybody. You have got to stop and start see people the way God sees them..
You don't need to change your neighbor, friend, or spouse, they are WONDERFUL the way they are. You need to make adjustments to accommodate people...
So, quit trying,love them as they are. If we love people the way they are, then they Will discover something from that love. They will discover that they are valuable and the message of "SELF-VALUES " will begin to transform them from one realm to another!....