While i was about writing this post , i decided to ask a variety of my male pals if or not they think a woman should let a man know she's interested in him or not ..
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and these are the honest responses i got from them :-
- I like relationships that are unbiased( fifty/ fifty). If she's interested ,she should let me know, just like i would let her know if i am too.
- I am not a type who chase women ,neither would i set myself up for such. If she doesn't let me know she likes me, she might as well forget it.
And here comes my favourite reply.. - I really don't get this question. Why would i be with someone who doesn't like me.
And come to think of it why would a man want to be with you if you act like you don't like him?
I know most ladies have the mindset of "Dont Talk to a man first". You also aren't supposed to look at him, smile at him or compliment him..but how in the world is this man supposed to know you like him? How is he supposed to get the courage to ask you out without thinking he would be settling himself up for embarrassment & rejection?
Believe me, no healthy man is going to want to go down such line.
Doesn't it make you feel good when a man shows you he's interested in you?
Don't u feel more confident if he gives you a warm smile,a compliment,or lets you know he really likes you?
It gives you a feeling to take the next step, because you feel safer reciprocating.
Then why should you deprive a man you care about of this same experience.
The rule here is : Treat Men The Way You Want Them To Treat You.
Men are also human,they need just as much love and approval as women do. They are also afraid of rejection and perhaps even more than women. They would avoid any situation in which they could feel like they've failed.
The more sensitive a man's heart, the more true this is.