When we see peoples achievement in life we desire to attain what they have, most times we want to gain from it.
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I remember some years back when i was young,there is a very small girl in my class then she is very brilliant in all class works she was so brilliant to the extent that i wish i could be like her.
After some years i observe that he work a lot harder but she is just better than average meanwhile she was brilliant all because her parents are very strict with her they don't leave any chance for her to play unless she is done with all necessary assignment expected from her,but i was so troublesome and also love playing but with this i fought for fifth position not that i don't know the right thing i later realize that she was just fortunate.
Erase any thing that can bring enmity, i envy her all because i have no idea of what i want to become in life. don't count on others be your self.
Also, if u continue to focus on other people you wont be able to solve most things you hate about your personal life, devote a little time for your self and think on what you want to become so lets stop the act of animosity.