No lessons or experiences for free.
"To gain knowledge and experience in life, you have to trade with another and not always have money."
For certain lessons, you have to spend the "invisible" For example, effort, gray matter, time and sometimes suffering, fatigue, despair, etc.
If you are lovelorn, see the "broken heart" stage as the price to pay.
You know that couples are not always happy ending like fairy tales.
If you fail to apply for a scholarship, let the disappointment teach you that the path to success public has never been easy. "