With all due respect, I think it is irritating for a dude with bad finances to carry on about how faithful, loving, special, drop-dead-gorgeous, smart, intelligent, amazing he wants his woman to be! How can you be expecting so damn much, you can't even get your bank figures right and you are checking out her waist and figure 8! "I want a woman who can love and respect me..." Brother, go and love your work and respect money first; all things will be added unto you.