There is a difference between being afraid to fail and being afraid to be seen failing. I spent a long time not making that distinction and it cost me more than the actual fear of failure would have. I

At some point productivity became a moral category. Not just a practical tool but evidence of character. The productive person is virtuous. Disciplined. Worthy. The unproductive person has something to

For a long time i explained my limits like they required justification to be valid. If i said i could not do something or did not want something, there was always a reason attached. A long one usually,