Is there really a "one and only" that the lord has for each of us? this issue is complicated by the conflict of two positions those who say we have no "choice" because the sky has set everything (Fatalism), and those who believe we shape our future (The power of free will).We should strike a balance between the two arguments and appreciate the interplay between the will of god and the free choice of man.
we need to refine the answer to this question. The lord has sovereign wisdom and power. He knows the beginning and ending of our lives. He is encharge. But, that doesn't mean he is a "puppet master" and we are robots. only submissive to his wishes.we were given the freedom of choice . we have the power to obey or disobey his will.
But because of our sinful nature, we find it difficult to know His will. The solution is to surrender our lives to the Lord, leave the sinful life and change the course of our thinking so that we can fully understand His plan for us.
You can have the best partner , God has reserved for you.!
It will dictate whether you follow his will or allow yourself to be the "driver" of your life. God has a "permissive will". He respects our decision, even our choice to sin. He can permit sin to occur. .He can allow us to rebel against him, but ofcourse, with negative consequences .In this situation, you may not get the "The best" he intended for you.But dont be disheartened .You may have engaged in wrong relationships in the past Whatever we have done wrong, the lord can fix our lives.Remember,he can make all things can work together for your good if you really love him! 😊
