There is something very important that is going to happen tomorrow's night. There is a birthday celebration for my sister, Vivian.
My mom planned to setup a celebration for her where the whole family will go out for a fine dining together.
But yet, something too happened yesterday. My sister had an argument with my mom and it was a big fight. I am not going to share what actually the fight about. But my concern is more towards the celebration tomorrow.
My sister had not been talking to my mom. They did not have dinner together yesterday and my sister went to stay over at her friends' place after the fight. How awkward it will be tomorrow when they meet tomorrow.
I called my sister and found out that her decision of not turning up tomorrow for the celebration. She is just gonna pretent that she is sick and will not be there, whether the celebration is postponed or cancelled she just doesn't care anymore.
Hence my learning from this whole thing is really about TIMING. In this case, there is actually some conversation that we need to keep to ourselves first before we actually bring up the issue to discuss. If the discussion 1 - 2 weeks after the celebration, it could have a different results.
Same as business and work, there is a specific right TIMING for everything to happen.
Anyway I wish everything will be all well soon. Again, keep DRAMA from your relationship, be it family, boy girl relationship and even friendship.