This is for the ladies, this one is for you. We’re going to talk about the number one lie that girls tell their friends about dudes. If you’re wondering if a guy’s into you. You will talk to your group of girls. You'll be like, “yo, I really like this guy I don't know what's up with him?” Your friends will say something like, “oh girl, you know he’s intimidated by you!” It'll usually be some version of that or you're so much woman or he's into you but doesn't know it yet. Some bullshit to make you feel better.
What happens is, you do feel better. Then you keep dealing with this fuckboy instead of letting him go. I mean, he told you one thing but he's acting a different way. That's why you're asking for advice. Listen to what he says, because he told or hinted that he's not ready for a relationship. Then your friends lie and make you confused. I'm sorry to break it to you, but he’s not that into you. If he likes you and he's into you, he will let you know. It's that simple.
Your friends don’t want want to break it down to you like this because they don’t want to hurt your feelings. They don't want to see you cry on the floor or snot dripping out your nose at the bar. Especially when we're trying to have a good time. So we're leaving you thinking “you're too much woman for him.” Believe me, there's a big difference between a guy that's super into you and a guy that's using you when he’s bored. Anytime you hear a girl say, “he's intimidated by you” even if you hear him say it. I want you ladies to read it as fuck that guy and move on.
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