Guys, I'm shook. Like rocked to the core.
I was watching a BuzzFeed video where they were discussing a few things in regards to cheating and whether or not the senerio given to you, you would consider it cheating or not.
They also have the quiz online (more like a voting thing), I decided out of curiosity to answer some of these questions...
Here is the link to the website https://www.buzzfeed.com/mireyagonzalez/cheaters-guide-to-cheatin
Now I'm not even joking, one of the questions was, if your partner has sex with someone else would that be considered cheating.... Kid you not, 1% of people said no!
So I know that open relationships and polygamous relationships are a thing... but it's still cheating. The only difference is, when you put yourself in that situation, you are telling your partner that you are infact okay with being cheated on.
For those too lazy to go to the website, here are some of the questions that I found ... Interesting? What, if any of these would you consider to be cheating?
- Your partner keeps their ex's sexy pics on their phone.
- Your partner constantly communicates with their ex and hides it from you.
- Your partner sends sexy texts/pics to someone they haven't met.
- Your partner has a dating app on their phone
- Your partner falls asleep in someone else's bed...
Those are just some of the questionable ones and here is what voted yes- cheating... Not- not cheating
- Yes: 72%. Not: 28%
- Yes: 89%. Not: 11%
- Text- Yes: 95%. Not: 5% / Pics- Yes: 98%. Not: 2%
- Yes: 59%. Not: 41%
- Yes: 64%. Not: 36%
After looking at those results, I'm starting to realize why the divorce rate is so high...
All I can say... Don't be a "scumbag Steve", there is no reason that could ever excuse cheating. The rule of thumb, don't do something to someone else, you wouldn't want done to you.
That's all
Xoxo
@thegoldencookie