Hi all steemian friends, i want to share with you
About 1300 years ago The Wise People once told us,
"Train your sons according to their time, for they shall live in a time different from your own days."
This message really has such a profound meaning, why ..? Because we often always compare our past to be something that must always be imitated by our children.
We often forget that times have changed, education at the time of Kartini in the exaggeration certainly not suitable anymore to be applied in the past we are raised, so also with the age of our children, he needs new educational ways that fit the era. and science educates children.
If we want our children to come forward of course we also must invite him to always look ahead, and not vice versa.What happens when someone walks forward but always invited to look back ..?
Almost all children, from pre-school years to teenagers often make trouble, no matter how perfect their parents are.
Why ...? This happens because initially a child has his own instinctive desire as well as their parents, the problem begins to emerge when the child's basic desires are instinctively contrary to the propriety values shared by the people adult.
The simplest example is in the case of infant age children. Instinctively a baby has an instinctive desire to mamasukkan everything that holds it into the mouth, but it turns out the desire in the eyes of his parents are considered less healthy and even likely to be dangerous, especially if put into his mouth is objects that are dirty or may be toxic.
So that his parents often yelled to forbid his son to insert objects kemulut.Padahal later in the know by the experts that actually enter something kemulut is in order to train the senses of the baby.
If only we parents know of the existence of this natural basic needs may be we will not give too much reaction to the behavior of our children that we think less appropriate tersebut.Melainkan by changing the type of objects that can be in the emut by the child, who healthy, safe and harmless. In order for the child's learning and safety process to be well preserved.
