This quote is spoken today in the context of interpersonal relations, explaining his caution in giving others trust. It is also intended to explain the distance and leaving the door open. Just in case ... According to the principle - you can never be 100% sure, so love, but check. There are other voices that emphasize that control as the highest form of trust excludes the possibility of building a happy relationship. One of the components of the relationship is, after all, the courage to bestow on the other side the trust, from which one should begin and from which it is impossible to escape. Therefore, all control is only a signal that the relationship is going bad ... In other words, in mature relationships, no one checks the billing, does not sniff the shirt and does not control the schedule of the partner's day. Or maybe leaving full freedom is simply naivety and if we want to love it should be checked and keep an eye on it?
Otherwise you can not? Because there are too many temptations and threats around?
On the other hand, you can not build a relationship without trust. You have to have faith that the other person has clear intentions that he is fair and does not want to cheat. However, live in the shadow of eternal suspicion and at the same time remain in a happy relationship. Experience teaches that full devotion often ends in wounds.
Some also say that it is better not to look, because it will be found and sometimes it is better not to know that it does not spoil your nerves. You can misinterpret certain signals, and life in a constant sense of threat in the long run is unbearable.
So how? Control or not?
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