Do not let your child's bad character make you lose control.
We must remember and be very clear that we are the parents and we are the ones who have control over our children, it depends on us their behavior and character, what we form in them is what in the future will be the reflection of their education.
Children are manipulative by nature and know how to put these messages into practice on a daily basis, until they come to know their own weaknesses rather than ourselves as parents. It is in the adults to stop for a moment and reconsider that he is doing badly in the education of his son and not knowing how to control that bad mood that makes him come out afloat. Do not let yourself be dominated by a tantrum and that bad character that many times or circumstances happen to your child, which is out of context, because we are the adults that we must have the maturity of maturity to face situations that you think you get outside of our hands.
I think that as parents we have many points of view on this issue, some parents give their consent and allow their children to do inappropriate things, much less in front of you as parents, my concept is that your child's condition is a reflection of what That you could have lived like a child, if you went through a situation with your parents, just stop and think that you would not like your children to go through the same thing (and this leads to allowing things that should not be done), even if you know they are wrong, let them do it and that's where your first mistake as a parent is.
As parents we need guidance and even more if it is the first time, the experience makes you make serious mistakes with your children because you think that if you correct them, you will hurt them and that is not true, but you will avoid suffering in the future, a child educated with a dosed behavior will have the doors open when he is an adult and this would be very good about who his parents were.
A child's education begins first at home and then at school, education is reinforced. The bad character of your child is proof that something is wrong at home and that this is getting out of hand.
As I said before, the school is a complement to help parents to strengthen the education of children, the teacher does not have the right to correct if the youth is rude and haughty in school, but rather the teacher would feel trapped between the sword and the wall because situations like that would go out of control, the child should leave home with the best education so as not to embarrass his parents on the street.
The control of your child is in your hands
Speaking softly in front of an unpleasant situation is the best way to calm anger.
Listen carefully to your concerns or what bothers you to keep that bad character afloat.
Explain in a low voice the reasons why you do not comply with your requests if the child is not right.
If for some time you manage to lose control, try to breathe and think for a moment about the consequences if you get angry, remember that you are the example of what he looks at.
Never say no immediately, tell him you are going to think and reach an agreement.
Your response will calm the character of your child, just think well that will respond at that time, so that the child feels safe and calm.
As intelligent parents, you have control over the whole situation that you can live with your children, it is in you to appease the anger or increase it.
Parents are not perfect and we do not know all of them, there comes a time when some situation gets out of hand, but we must listen to advice from third parties that are good from another point of view and perhaps more clearly than ourselves.
