Do you know that the only tree a monkey cannot climb is the banana tree. Paradoxically, banana is what monkey likes the most. This means that anytime banana is found in the hand of a monkey, it's most likely a gift. Hence the phrase "Who dash monkey banana?" was coined.
In the journey of life there are things you like but can never achieve unless you are given by God.
Therefore, it is not of him that willeth or of him that runneth but of God that showeth Mercy.
That is why many try, but they do not reach because they are not given by God.And many do not take the choice to take the chance and because of this change do not occur
There are however four obstacles that do cause this.first:we are told from childhood onward that everything we want
to do is impossible. We grow up with the idea,and as the the years accumulate,so too do the layers of prejudice, fear and guilt. There comes a time when our personal calling is so deeply buried in our soul as to be invisible. But it's still there.
If we have the courage to disinter dreams, we are faced by the second obstacle:love, we know what we want to do,but are afraid of hurting those around us by abandoning everything in order to pursue our dream.we do not realize that love is just a further impetus,not something that will prevent, us going forward. We do not realize that those who genuinely wish as well want us to be happy and are prepared to accompany us on that journey.
Once we have accepted that love is a stimulus, we come up against the third obstacle: fear of the defeats we will meet on the path.we who fight for our dream, suffer far more when it doesn't work out, because we can not fall back on the old excuse:"oh,well,I didn't really want it anyway."we do want it and know that we have staked everything on it and that the path of the personal calling is no easier than any other path,except that our whole heart is in this journey.
Then, we warriors of light must be prepared to have patience in difficult times and to know that the universe is conspiring in our favour,even though we may not understand how I ask myself:are defeats necessary? Well,necessary or not,they happen. When we first begin fighting for our dream,we have no experience and make many mistakes. The secret of life,though,is to fall seven times and to get up eight times.
Each day,each hour,is part of the good fight.we start to live with enthusiasm and pleasure. Intense, unexpected suffering passes more quickly than suffering that is apparently bearable, the latter goes on for years. and,without our noticing, eats away at our soul,until, one day,we are no longer able to free ourselves from the bitterness and its stays with us for the rest of our lives.
Having disinterred our dream, having used the power of love to nurture it and spent many years living with the scars,we always wanted is there waiting for us,perhaps the very next day.Then comes the fourth obstacle: The fear of realizing the dream for which we fought all our lives.
We forget about all the obstacles we overcame,all the suffering we endured,all the things we had to give up in order to get this far. I have known a lot of people who,when their personal calling was within their grasp, went on to commit a series of stupid mistakes and never reached their goal.when it was only a step away.
This is the most dangerous of the obstacles because it has a kind of saintly aura about it renouncing Joy and conquest. But if you believe yourself worthy of the thing you fight so hard to get,then you become an instrument of God, you help the soul of the world, and you understand why you are here.
And by so doing, you get the purpose for which God has created and something which we were not created for comes from God like a gift,That is the Irony of life.........