I want to talk openly about the stories you convey lorilike.For those who have a problem as you tell me, be it for you or him or them or me.
When you feel that another woman is "too close" to your partner, and is seen threatening your relationship, your first reaction is to act like a tigress and try to defend what is rightfully yours.
But to be honest, we do not encourage you to embarrass yourself and your partner (and the third woman, even if you really want it).
Here's what you can do if there's a third person in your relationship:
Evaluate yourself.
One of the biggest mistakes you make when trying to fix a problem is to ignore your contribution to this issue. Ask yourself if you have worked hard enough in this relationship, whether you are really committed to your spouse, or whether you are often looking for problems for no apparent reason.
Often, a third person arises due to lack of attention, affection, or understanding given to the couple. So, it's good to do self introspection first.
Confrontation directly
Many people say hate confrontation, but believe that this is the most effective way to handle this situation. instead of adding unnecessary drama by directing your anger to the closest people like family and friends, it's better to go straight to another woman and ask what the purpose is by trying to "destroy" your relationship. The worst possibility is he will lie and refuse his involvement, but usually you can always find out, really. Do face-to-face with this other woman and do it regularly
Civilized show that you are mature and willing to fight for your relationship.
Expand communication
Another mistake that often occurs when dealing with a third person is to stay still and let the situation take place without doing anything. If you feel uncomfortable with someone who is considered threatening your relationship, then talk to your partner. Problems with pairs will not be resolved if ignored or left alone. Discuss the situation calmly, listen to their respective opinions, and find solutions together.
Recognize the real problem
If there is a third person in your relationship, many things can be blamed. Maybe the couple already wants to break the relationship with you but do not know how to do it. Or maybe his ex girlfriend came back in his life and made him nostalgic. In fact, there is a chance you will no longer fall in love with your partner and have found a new person. Do not rush to blame a third person when the real problem is between you two.
Move
When all the steps are completed and no more options are left, continue. Whether it's separation, or after the problem is solved, forget the third person. Focus on your own relationship!
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