Well, we've actually been a patchwork family since 2005 but the wedding was 2011. All the kids are adults now, though my son still lives with us full time. He is 19 and has a better job now and wants to find a place to live on his own, with his girlfriend, this spring. But finding places is hard and they are very expensive here. His better job is not that good! Lol I have helped him make his budget so he knows how expensive everything is. Lol