Hello everyone
Let's talk today about the words and their power to make the human mentality.
( a picture of me )
In life there's two types of person, the one that is always happy and optimistic
Even in bad moments, he sees only the good parts of everything.
Exemple if he loss his job he will tell you oh thanks god i have more time to find something better, or ameliorate my abilities....
The other type, is the one always tired of life, when you meet him in a bautiful day he will make it the worst of your week simply while talking with you.
This type will never encourage you to do something good, and always sees the worst parts of everything.
We all know these 2 types and we're one of them. To help you know which one is describing you . The first one is the type that will succeed in everything of his life from social, sentimenal and materialist parts. And the other one is the totale opposite.
If i ask you now which one you want to be friend with ?
Of course, you will chose the one who will always help you and give you good advices .
So, how can you be that type of person ?
Well you must reprogramme your brain.
Now i'm asking you to don't imagine an elephant dancing ballet
What do you see now ? Your are seeing an elephant dancing ballet .
Well that's normal, our brain take every word he listen out of his contest, as here he can't understand the negation.
Going from this point. the brain can judge if you are happy or not through what you are telling and listning.
Explanation :
if somoene tells you:
are you okey ?
And you say yes there's no problem !!
Well here the brain heard just the word problem so he will say oh men we have problems .
To solve that and reprogram yourself, You have to choose only the good words to say and recorrect others when they puch you to think sceptically .
Exemple of somoene talking to you :
You're such an idiot you did it all wrong
In this case you can reccorect them by saying
You mean i didn't do it right, and i have to work harder next time.
If you notice, it's the same message but the second sentence is optimistic .
The same thing with children. Never tell a child that he will be a loser.
tell him for exemple : you are not doing enough effort to succeed.
And don't remember that we don't critisize a person for what she is but we criticize her actions.
To conclude, for the few future weeks, try to change the words you're using while keeping in mind the optimise while talking . And protect yourself by repeating what other's tell you in the optimistic type.
It's more important to give good advices then just blame people.
Thanks for reading
See yaa 🌷⚘