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As Bernabé Tierno says in his book "Apprentice of the Wise", no one can question the need for love, as the need for food, air, light, water or sun. Love is a spontaneous and natural feeling, therefore, do not forget: value those who seek you and love those who do not let you go.
It is as incoherent to demand the love of another person as to forbid a person to love us, since all love derives from spontaneity and our inner freedom. We can not control what we feel, nor the feelings we provoke in other people.
Value anyone who shows interest in you
When we love we do it with our whole being, our intelligence, our body, our senses and, of course, our heart. It is something irresistible, that contains beauty and sometimes pain, but that always teaches us to know ourselves.
"Love does not need to be understood, it just needs to be demonstrated."
-Paulo Coelho-
If someone shows interest in us, cares, calls us, writes to us, we must value that interest, that sincere show of affection and respect. A spontaneous display of affection is something that comes from the heart, which makes us reflect on what is really important.
Love whoever wants to be by your side.
A person who really wants to be by your side calls you to know how you are, is next to you in difficult times, looks you in the eye and listens carefully to what you have to say, respects you and values you for how you are, He admires you and shows it to you. In short, he loves you.
If someone wants to be by your side, it is and day by day you can count on one another, be it a couple or a friend. If you want to spend time with someone, you find it and you share moments without looking at the clock, letting the hours pass without realizing it.
One of the best-known Persian proverbs about love says: "The thirst of the heart is not quenched by a drop of water." It means that when someone longs to love and be loved, a small show of affection or a passing experience is not enough. He needs more to feel that his need was fulfilled.
Love and kindness
The word kindness comes from the word love. Friendly is he who is worthy to be loved. Of course, that adjective applies to those who are affable, close and respectful of others. This represents the essence of kindness.
The shortage of pearls
Almost all of us go through moments in which each reality seems to flourish, including love. Most of us have also gone through stages in which the opposite occurs. Nothing grows, nothing grabs, nothing blooms. Sometimes that leads us to lose hope and change our way of seeing life.
One proverbs alerts us to the importance of preventing this from happening. He says: "If you dive in the sea and do not find pearls, do not conclude that there are no pearls in the sea." Like the pearl seeker in the sea, sometimes we just do not find the treasures just because we do not look in the right place.
But in our daily life, there are precious pearls, we just have to find them, value them and love them.
"There is a lady who has been with me for many years helping me with household chores, she is already part of my family. When I wake up she always tells me: how my favorite boss dawned, she hugs me she serves me coffee as I really like it, incredible the affection that comes out of it, there are times I think that this type of people are precious pearls. "
Today is a good day to value and tell those great people how important they are in our lives, how happy they are to us, and thank them for existing!
