Wow. Excellent question! I am nothing like I thought I would be. I had plans. Then life happened. In some ways I am stronger than I thought I would be. In some ways I'm weaker. I live one day at a time with thanksgiving and gratitude. Sometimes I have a bad day. I've learned fighting that is futile. I go ahead and have a bad day. Most days are good. I love this group. I find comfort and inclusion here. I've learned so many new things. Today is a good day. 