Individual choices can raise communal behavior! Somehow you can think a person nerd, and again you think another person is so Smart. So you despised the person who is nerd. That means you behaved in a communal way.
Let me tell you something. When I was busy with myself in the early days of the recitation academy, I did not have time for others. I thought myself to be the smartest person in my world. Although some think that i am the nerdiest person of the World. There was nothing I could do and i do not even care what they think about me. I was into myself and be confident. But it turned out that people's tastes has been changed. They are not just counting in the region, they are trying to care all sort of people and could be the nerdiest one as the nerd boy could possibly rock the contest.
But what is the nerdiest thing or smart thing? If you have confidence then you are smart. Though you behave like all the world's nerdiest one, but you are smart. Because who said what is not your matter of facts, you do not get anything from their words. Again, if you have a lack of confidence, then you can think yourself as a nerd in the world, whether you are smart or not in real life. It's because of your thought, your confidence level.
So, this smartness and nerdiest behavior will give you exactly the taste. So far you remain like you, that means it has not been communal. But whenever you began to measure people with this individual's personal interest, you did the rituals and tasteless classes - then you became communal.
A self-confident person values his or her preferences as well as likes and interests, and respects the taste of others. Not to be mixed with the taste of others, it is really bad to think that others have a low mentality. There is no difference between the taste and interest of Hitler in the interest of the people who make you communal.
Let's give an example
- What do you think that the trend that you follow now in the selection of dress can be wrong in someone else's view? How do the two people think of each other when they think of each other as a nerd?
Therefore, not being communal in the name of becoming a smart and sociable person.