Sometimes when things don't work out we can get demotivated, sad and we end up talking ourselves down.
At that point we are actually making things worse and we are training ourselves to be someone we don't want to be.
Being aware of the fact that we become better at whatever it is we focusing on, will allow us to grow faster in whatever we do or want to do! Good luck!
Here are some other posts you might like!
How I got off my couch and started to run: https://steemit.com/health/@athenajade/couch-to-5k
On how language influences us: https://steemit.com/psychology/@athenajade/do-we-speak-the-same-language
On absolute truths: https://steemit.com/psychology/@athenajade/debate-1-is-there-such-a-thing-as-an-absolute-universal-truth
On the limitations our conditioning puts upon us: https://steemit.com/life/@athenajade/this-inner-cage-called-conditioning
On growing our own potential: https://steemit.com/life/@athenajade/whatever-you-are-doing-you-are-getting-better-at-it