When it come to our kids, we love to spoil them as much as we want as parents because we love them as much as we do that we do everything that we can so that they will make happy for their lives.
We, as parents, would love our kids to live in a comfortable lives because we don't want to have our children or kids experience on what we experience before when we were kids. We do everything in our power to make their lives as much easier.
But there were times that our children need to experience some hardships because they will not know about values if they didn't experience that.
For me, experiencing my kids to these challenges, obstacles, and facing them is one way for them to grow when they will become an adult but we were the one that help them if they are really in need and supports them on their way. If we don't challenge them, how will they grow and what will happen to them if we are not by their side and also if we, as parents, perish. I think if they overcome and they will be successful of these challenges they will know the basics since they know the challenge already.
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I think, that's the best choice for them so that they will know about the real world that the world is not always kind but having them challenge is another way for them to grow and we just lend our hand for them.
We know that the challenges and obstacles that our kids may face is not easy and seeing them that they are struggling really aches my heart but that is part of a challenge that they will face.
Just like the reality TV show that I've watched here in our country which is called "Pinoy Big Brother" that the kids show compassion, integrity, truthful, and etc. and there's no parents that are involve in that show where they face lots of challenges and obstacle that they can learn something from it.
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Also, for myself that I learned lots of knowledge when I was in college since I went to other city to study their and there's no parents around me to always watch my move. From there, I learned many things on how to live alone that I didn't expect because my parents were always there for me when I was a kid but having that opportunity, that I face lots of challenges and obstacles like studies, relationships, time management, and etc. It helps me grow as I am today.
