Winter is the perfect time of year to really get close to someone. You can’t beat Mother Nature so this is the time to join her! This is the time of year when the temperature goes down but that should have nothing to do with your love life. In fact take advantage of opportunities to get close to whether it be romantic fires, snuggling or any outdoor activity and keep the bond going strong. Here is the single best tip to control those winter blues and focus on LOVE!
CHANGE YOUR ATTITUDE! That’s it. It is so easy, simple and it works! Now go for it. Go ahead. It really works. It did for me and it has for years. Get rid of your checklist! I have never had a client come to me and ask to be matched with a fat slob who loves to sit on the couch with a bag on chips and do nothing all day! I know about your list and I know about most lists’ but I am asking you to get rid of your LIST because over the past 20 years, I have been reading the same lists over and over again.
He has to be tall, handsome, make a ton of money, love children, want lot’s of them, drive a nice car, love his mom, and let you rule his world. BULLSHIT AND GOOD LUCK! That list has nothing to do with anything. Now, if you want to find a guy to connect with and have chemistry with, then you are going to listen to my advice and open yourself up and change your attitude! Then this is what is going to happen. You will find yourself with a new attitude and you will find yourself connecting with people you could have never imagined yourself with. You are now going to be on the right road to finding love and not closing of any doors. What you want is to find someone that you connect with and have chemistry with and one that will be completely in love with you! Hopefully he/she will be intelligent, open minded, worldly, thoughtful, and both of you will bring out the best in each other so you can have a healthy happy relationship that is based on realistic expectations and not the unrealistic first list above which will get you no where real fast!
This winter concentrate of finding love with realistic expectations and not closing yourself off. Life is a journey so take some risks. It is well worth it. What do you have to lose? Don’t’ sit around and wait for someone to ring your doorbell. Go for it by changing your attitude! You will start to witness the miracle of life. Once you start thinking differently, you start to get rid of your unrealitistic expectations, your baggage, your insecurities, judgments and you learn to see the world as a different place. Your mind will benefit from this and watch how you start to choose your thoughts wisely. Your body and mind will become one and your overall presence will become more vibrant, alive, sexy, confident and you will start to attract the kind of person who is just like you!