One reason many do not know if they are winning or losing is that the don't know what their will is in relation to the world.
All you have to do in order to make the world a value is define your relation to it. Rather that see what is happening and just accept it as the ditch of life leads you into it's grove take a moment to ignore the reality in front of your face that you did not decide on. Now ask yourself what should happen next. What actually should happen given everything that you know. Now at the same time swing your arm in direction and see what happens.
Did the event you hoped for happen? If so then that it's a sign that you are still in touch with the creative force of the universe, but wether or not it does it still takes much practice before you can be sure you are in touch.
Remember that your life depends on knowing what is going to happen. The universe is in dire need of more directors. That is the entire reason for the existence of the DAOs and chains of the decentralized sphere of crypto.
The sense of life that many abandon and forget about in the chaos and turmoil of life cannot sustain itself. It needs you to make it so. In return you will receive back the free will you had abandoned.
The blockchain will receive your life and expand and multiply it. Soon the new AIs will emulate it and interact with each other and trade your ideas as tokens and coins but it all starts in your life with you as the director.