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It is interesting title right who wants to learn how to fail. We do not want to learn how to fail. However, life is showing us some bad experiences. These bad experiences are really bad enough to take your life energy and leave you desperate.
What happens next is thinking that you will fail in your next action. You do not have an energy to start to do something take you out of this desperate mood.
There is a story about this one. One shark and a small fish are put in an aquarium. Shark tries to eat small fish but there is a glass between each other and each time trying to eat fish fails. Shark tries over and over but could not have an any success.
Second phase of the experiment is taking out glasses between the shark and the fish. Surprisingly, shark never tries to pass to that side any more and tries to eat the fish.
This kind of things happen in our lives, but we cannot see the mistake or reason make us to fail sometimes. Though mistakes are so small and can be solved with little touch.
Failing all the time cause to limit your move and you feel that you are going to fail again. In addition to that you tell similar things to other people and affect them.
Some people call these failings as an experience and train younger people with this model. However, conditions may change, and we could get good result with small revisions.
It could be a good thing knowing less in some manners. Especially, experienced person is important, when you look that person’s past: What do you see success or fail? Maybe that person is not a successful in the particular subject. In that situation, you could be successful with your plan just make your plan and stick your plan. If something does not go well, check the plan revise it and try one more time. If process getting good result with changes, you just continue until getting a successful result.
Possibilities change every day and life could present a gift for you when time is right. Until that day, you could continue trying and stop learning how to fail.
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