Don't allow your past control your presence or your future. You must let go of what ever happened to you. Leave the pain of your past behind so it will not ruin your future. Leave the darkness of your past behind so that it will hinder the light of your bright.
Your past is gone . Leave whatever happened, because holding onto the event will never do you good.
The only way you can win is if you let go and move on. If you live in have they win. If live in victim story they win also. If you you want to win, you must focus on building your future which starts right now.
Release the weight on your back so you can be free.
Don't allow events from the past which are now gone to ruin this moment which is perfect and fit for enjoyment.
Leave your past and live fully.