Hi , all my dear readers, I do hope you all are doing great in your respective areas of life. So guys, my today’s topic is based on one of the essential phase or phases of life which If not tackle rightly and strategically will make your journey towards your vision enormously and irrationally difficult. Sit back, take some deep breaths and be prepared to go through some life changing.
ACCEPTABLE BUT NOT LET IT BECOME UNACCEPTABLE:
Going through a setback is an acceptable thing as there are times in a life of humans when their effectiveness is decreased and their flow or rhythm is deteriorated but staying in that state is not, which is one of the cause why people failed ultimately in life as they get demoralize from setback and don’t know how to put their selves back on track. So let’s explore how to tackle that one of the toughest phase of life strategically.
ENERGY DRAINED OUT :
All those visionary individuals ,who put sheer amount of their energies and time for achieving it , mostly over do it or go beyond what’s required which is quite good but they also need some rest as well . And remember that period will act as a preparation for the next big battle . So consider it as your healing time .
ENORMOUSLY RESULT ORIENTED:
During this period of deteriorated effectiveness , the thinking of individual becomes narrow which causes him to lose the sight of big picture and just get frustrated over not getting the desired outcome of what he/she did. This extreme result orientating will lead to blockage of his ability think long term . So remember there are multiple factor behind the results and keep blaming and trying hard with narrow thinking will make the situation more worse.
Best thing is to not worry a lot about result or outcome as it’s comes under the domain of Almighty Allah rather keep working on the strategies and efforts which will eventually turn the result in your favour by the blessing of Almighty.
SELF ANALYSIS :
Is one of the most essential tool ,as being enormously result oriented will lead us to became a narrow thinker and further it’ll lead to blockage of human ability to analyze a single thing or situation from different angles and perspectives which is very necessary skill to be solution oriented in this contemporary world.
Most of people are not even aware of this narrow thinking trap and in order to get out from it or not being a victim of that trap , self analysis is the only solution . Take out a piece of paper and reflect what you were doing and do detail break down analysis of what you did and consequences of that action , so that you can figure out where you went wrong and how can you improve it by writing the list what else I can do and what consequences will it lead to .The key is simple , ‘be the best critique of yourself ’ , and try to use that strategy by doing analysis in writing ,so that you can make your mind clear and take out concrete solution.
SETBACK DEALING MECHANISM:
Develop your own set back dealing or bounce back mechanism through the trial and error , so that you can be confident that you’ll definitely bounce back. Let me show you my mechanism , so adopt if you like anything and discard other . The key is to figure out what works best for you .
- SEE YOUR WHY OR REASON LIST:
In such cases , I read or recall my reason list which I make before pursuing vision and those reason will help to gain that strength and energy back .Remember the bigger the reason the bigger the force because great visionaries think beyond their own selves and in your reason list there’s such reason exist then I must say you’re the one who’s going to make that happen .
Note : If you don’t have such why or reason list then why not to make one? . So you’re going to make one.
- SELF ANALYSIS :
Self analysis already explained in detail above but remember this tools is to show you where you went wrong . The key is simple quit or discard the strategy which is not working and increase the effort on those who are.
- SPEND TIME ALONE AND POSITIVE SELF TALK:
Actually , I daily spent some time alone , so that my inner voice will guide me . Do spent some time alone which could be in any where such as walk in garden , sitting at a religious place etc . The key to sit alone and talk with optimistically to your self but place needs to be peaceful so that you can declutter your mind, motivate yourself and have clarity.
- DEVOTED PRAYERS:
When you’re going through the setback then it’s the best time to connect with the supreme authority Almighty Allah (God) and shed some tears off to enhance your spiritual side. Further this will lead you to pray devotedly in a state of complete surrender and tranquility.
Lastly , I believe and saw that praying with a faith will leads to life changing miracles .So discuss with your creator Almighty Allah(GOD) and see the miracles happens in real live. And remember one thing:
‘A set back is a step back to come back ’
So never get demoralize from them rather make and execute solid strategy to handle them.
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