Hello to all my faithful readers of @steemit,
I've gotten with a lot of people who look like a black cloud walking and who seems to enjoy embittering the dreams of others. This type of individuals in the worst case could even be our family, which represents a double sadness for those who are suffering.
I believe that criticism can be achieved anywhere we go, be it constructive or destructive criticism. The real problem is in destructive criticism, which completely ends with your dreams.
I particularly consider that:
No matter what others say to you and if your dream is realistic (of course), nobody has the right to end your illusions.
Sometimes we can show ourselves somewhat insecure in taking an important step in our lives, such as buying a good, an aesthetic operation, migrating to another country or getting married (just to name a few).
I need you to understand that being afraid is not wrong. If we were not afraid of making mistakes, we would lose our humanity.
Thinking our decisions with a cold head and in a very mature way, examining the pros and cons of it can guarantee a better result than we resolve to do.
What is inconceivable is to be afraid of the opinion of third parties. It is impossible to try to make everyone happy. While there is a famous phrase that says:
"Do not worry too much about what they say about you, not even God has managed to please everyone"
We cannot lose our whole life trying to please everyone and stop pursuing our longings and our happiness. On many occasions, we must be a little selfish with ourselves and think:
-First me, second me and third me.
You must understand that whatever decision you make, people will always talk, right or wrong. When you manage to ignore unfounded comments, and do things not to please others but to please you, that is where you will begin to make happy.
To conclude with this reflective post, I leave you with this quote from a famous philosopher:
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